often times when we find ourselves in difficult situations we tend to think that things are way worse then what they actually are. we find ourselves at a loss of words or ideas to make things better - which is funny cuz the minute someone else has a problem we immediatly have advice for them .. but the second it pertains to ourselves - we end up stuck with no where to turn ... just like john legend says in his latest single - we all know how to make things wrong, but none of us ever know how to make and keep things right .. which is the price of the game that that we all play .... people love to say that they dont play games or that they dont deal with the bullshit that others carry - and we all do. the minute we start dealing with someone outside of our regular people - you introduce yourself to a new game with new bullshit. but again, its the price we pay for what we want.
im just saying, personally, a lot of times when im faced with a situation it often feels like things will never get better, or that im stuck in the same position i told myself i would never be again - either way, things are never as bad as they really seem. instead of stressing about it, complaining, talkin to other people about it - just breathe. take a second out and take a look at the issue from the outside in. think about the other side of the situation - not just yours. life isnt always about your own feelings - a lot of times you need to think about how other people feel as well. and it gives you a better perspective of the situation at hand.
and at the end of the day ... what your heart or mind cant heal itself ... time will ...
be easy ..