figured i would share this with ya'll. going thru some things these past couple days and i found this clip on you tube. this is why i LOVE tyler perry .. the man is the truth .. i got the link to the video because they aint have no video code to post in this jawn . but i also got the quote... listen up cuz the man aint eva lie ...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRsDYkhteGs
he start off by saying , " if somebody wants to walk out of your life , let them go. "
"Some people are meant to come into your life for a lifetime, some for only a season and you got to know which is which. And you're always messing up when you mix those seasonal people up with lifetime expectations. I put everybody that comes into my life in the category of a tree. Some people are like leaves on a tree. When the wind blows, they're over there... wind blow that way they over here... they're unstable. When the seasons change they wither and die, they're gone. That's alright. Most people are like that, they're not there to do anything but take from the tree and give shade every now and then. That's all they can do. But don't get mad at people like that, that's who they are. That's all they were put on this earth to be. A leaf. Some people are like a branch on that tree. You have to be careful with those branches too, cause they'll fool you. They'll make you think they're a good friend and they're real strong but the minute you step out there on them, they'll break and leave you high and dry.ut if you find 2 or 3 people in your life that's like the roots at the bottom of that tree you are blessed. Those are the kind of people that aren't going nowhere. They aren't worried about being seen, nobody has to know that they know you, they don't have to know what they're doing for you but if those roots weren't there, that tree couldn't live. A tree could have a hundred million branches but it only takes a few roots down at the bottom to make sure that tree gets everything it needs. When you get some roots, hold on to them but the rest of it... just let it go. Let folks go. If you don't know how to be by yourself, what are you going to do with somebody else?"
"It's doesn't matter what people call you, it only matters what you answer to" ...
damn....